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Having an affair with your wife or long term partner is a high risk move at anytime. This article will teach you the fundamentals on how to successfully have a martial affair. However even after all of our advice it’s important to realise you maybe caught and this could end your relationship.

First thing you should consider is who you want to have an affair with. If you haven’t already met someone there are websites where you can meet like minded men and women who are also looking for an affair. If you choose to subscribe to one of these sites it’s important to have an explanation of what the expense is for if tour partner has access to your credit card expenditure. It might be worth getting a second, secret credit card in order to cover your tracks.

Here is a list of the best websites to use in order to find like minded men or women, its important to understand that the members of these sites will also have a spouse. This is therefore usually a much safer strategy than having an affair with a single person (who has nothing to lose).

• Ashley Madison – This was the first affair ‘dating’ site, we recommend it as it has more members than others.
  
• Illicit Encounters

We have produced golden rules which you should follow once you have successfuly found someone you would like to start having an affair with:

1. Never bring your lover to your home, or go to there home. This is a very easy way to get caught. Peoples plans change and the last with you want is his or her spouse walking in on you both!
2. Don’t exchange home phone numbers or mobile phone numbers. Your communications are also going to need to remain completely under the radar to avoid any suspicion.
3. Don’t give your new lover your home phone number or home address.
4. Keep a low profile when you and your partner are doing things, go out of the area – the last thing you want is to be spotted by one of your or your partners friends. It will get back to them.
5. Try to get into a regular pattern of seeing your new lover, this will prevent your spouse from becoming suspicious.
6. Don’t trust anyone with your secret, it could destroy your life, depending on what your relationship with your spouse is like.
7. Never make promises you can’t keep to your new lover, a frustrated lover may try to confront you or your spouse. This is why its safer having an affair with someone else who also has a spouse.
8. Don’t befriend each other on Social Networking sites such as Facebook, MySpace or Faceparty. Creating links will make people suspicious!

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