Shapley

So you are the hunk of the college or the limelight of every party. Sounds cool enough. Dating any woman is possible according to you. And you are every man’s idol out there. Do you think this way? Chances are that if you do, you are making a big mistake.

Dating a woman is not all about the flamboyance and charm. It has more aspects related to it including intelligence and positive attitude. Women are not always interested in high profile and flashy stuff. They are more romantic almost every day than a man can ever be in their life.

To help you understand the things better and provide you a true picture, following are some useful Dating tips for men:

• If you on your first date, try to establish a rapport with her.
• It is not all about you and your deeds. Listen to her. Women just love to meet and date guys who are good listeners. Don’t be a spoil sport and keep on talking about yourself. Listen to her and appreciate or pass on a positive comment. She would simply love it. When she goes back home she would remember your comments. Make sure you sound romantic while giving her the compliment. For Example, If you liked her hairdo, complement her and say “Wow have you done a new hairdo? It looks great on you”. Trust me she will love it.
• Maintaining an eye contact is a must. Don’t be shy; after all you are the MAN. Shying and passing on romantic cues is more of a gurly thing, not yours.
• Be positive in your attitude. Talk confidently.
• Don’t be pretentious. Don’t portray her you are not. Better showcase what you can do for her.
• Don’t be judgmental. Don’t write off anything on the first go. Give it a thought or may be strike an intelligent discussion and draw inferences.
• Last but not the least, if it’s your first date refrain from discussing politics, religion and other social issues. Trust me it could destroy the mood of your date. You are on a romantic date. Light it up with romance and love don’t be bothered about the rest of the world around you. It’s just you and her.

So next time, you are dating your woman ensure that you keep the mentioned points in mind. Be patient and calm. That is the simple mantra. It keeps you going and maintains a healthy rhythm. If your still looking for a date, you might want to sign up to a dating site  such as eHarmony.